Bad Sex Is Pandemic

Bad Sex Is Pandemic Linda Franklin The Real Cougar WomanBad sex is pandemic so says, Paul Nelson an  Erectile Dysfunction coach and patient educator. A prostate cancer survivor at 46, Paul discovered during his recovery from surgery, that there was almost no authentic information about erectile dysfunction anywhere on the internet.

 

In 2009, he founded www.franktalk.org, the first noncommercial website for ED. He is now president of the Erectile Dysfunction Foundation, Inc (501c3) the country’s only advocacy/support organization for men with sexual dysfunction.

Here’s what Paul has to say:

Every day I sit down with guys who tell me the same story. Something isn’t working. It’s always a combination of causes. But the underlying cause of it all is somewhere, somehow, someone spread a lot of rules about sex (really bad rules) that sex is a hard penis in a vagina (or any other orifice). Women are supposed to crave it; men can base their self-esteem on how long they can keep it there.

Part of the problem is that many guys aren’t sure what to do other than intercourse or oral sex. This is where the woman has a fantastic opportunity to teach – but for many reasons, many women continue to have sex by the same bad rules.

This is a letter I wrote this morning to a 37 year old guy who was having performance issues. He watches a lot of porn and he can stay hard. With his wife, he loses his erection. I could photocopy this letter and give it out to most of my guys.

To read Bob’s answer to this question so many guys have click here.

There’s lots more information on Paul’s website  http://www.theedcoach.com/

 

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says, ”there’s no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

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Bad Sex – Is It A Deal Breaker?

by Linda Franklin – The Real Cougar Woman
 
Bad Sex - Is It A DealBreaker? by Linda Franklin The Real Cougar Woman You met this great guy. You have been have dated five or six times and are thinking this could be the start of something big.  But, then your marvelous fantasy is abruptly derailed.  The spark you thought was there fizzled in the bedroom.  So what do you do – send him packing?

Yes, bad sex can be a totally legit reason to break up. The idea that the quality of sex within an otherwise good relationship is “trivial” was invented by people who are not having good sex.  Do you really want to listen to them?  I don’t think so.

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Low Sexual Desire In Men – America’s Best Kept Secret

by Linda Franklin

 Sex starved wives are more common than you think. It’s usually the husband that complains he’s not getting enough sex.  But, now the wives are speaking out.

Here’s the big difference in the two scenarios.  When men aren’t getting sex they don’t think it’s has anything to do with them. When women are rejected in bed or any other place, they think it’s all about them – I’m too boring, too fat, or too old?  A woman always sees herself as the problem.  Men don’t do that.

The truth is, if your man isn’t interested in sex, he’s not that unusual.  After three decades of working as a couples therapist Michele Weiner Davis is convinced that low sexual desire in men is America’s best-kept secret.

Do you think you might be a sex-starved wife?

  • Are you longing for more touch, sex and physical closeness?
  • Have you been feeling hurt, depressed, resentful or angry about your partner’s lack of interest in sex?
  • Have your feelings of resentment about your sex life prompted you to shut down emotionally?
  • Out of anger, have you have you berated your partner or been mean-spirited?
  • Do you wonder whether he really loves you?
  • Do you question your attractiveness or femininity?
  • Do you feel yourself building a wall around you to protect yourself from feelings of rejection?
  • Have you grown increasingly exasperated that you haven’t been able to get your husband to understand what’s missing in your relationship?
  • Are you feeling tempted to stray beyond your marriage to find companionship and sexual excitement?
  • Have you been so desperate that you’ve even considered (or you are) having an affair? 
  • Do you feel ashamed that your husband isn’t like other men?

If you’ve answered “yes” to several of these questions, it’s time to get help or at least read “Sex Starved Wives” by Ms. Davis.

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

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