Younger men who have a sexual preference for older woman often wonder if there is something wrong with them. One young man says, “for some reason older women just seem to attract me a lot, but it’s really not that commonplace.” He went on to say, ” girls my own age don’t turn me on but older women – oh boy”. He’s asking what should he do?
First of all it’s important to realize that there is nothing wrong with the cub and cougar dynamic. However, always remember that older women are NOT predators. They are confident, independent females who have come to realize what they want and what makes them happy. These relationships make all the sense in the world when you think about it: What better way for a young guy to learn the fine art of pleasing a woman than learning from someone who has figured that out on her own.
There are many types of relationships that can blossom from this dynamic – anything from enjoying the moment to something more lasting. Like anything else it depends on what’s important to both people involved. Never be afraid to make that known up front.
There shouldn’t be a problem – as long as both parties don’t become too possessive and are willing to let go when and if the time is right to do that. Often when the sexual relationship is over the friendship does remain intact.
So bottom line – don’t be afraid to dip your toe in the water if it feels right.
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