Prior to founding Heart Open LLC, Michael Russer was a highly successful international speaker, author and columnist. Then in September of 2011 he began a year-long personal transformation that included a diagnosis of prostate cancer, radical prostatectomy, followup intensive radiation treatments and full-blown impotence.
He considers impotence to be one of the biggest blessings in his life. It made it possible for him and his partner to discover an entirely new approach to experiencing levels of emotional and physical intimacy that far exceeded anything he felt before.
Michael was on our weekly radio show, Powered Up, last night talking in great deatail about his fabulous sex life and it’s a WOW!!!. I really urge you to listen to the podcast – it’s an eye-opener. He told us that he and his girlfriend have to schedule time for sex on their calendars because each session lasts between 2 and 4 hours. Yes, you read that right.
It is difficult for men who have had the radical surgery Michael did to achieve an erection, who can lead to all sorts of problems. Because of this loss, it’s difficult them to believe they still are still strong sexual beings capable of giving and receiving pleasure. Men are conditioned to believe that intercourse is the end all, be all of sexual activity, but, there are so many other delicious ways to connect. Women know this, men have to be taught.
The most important part of achieving satisfying sex is for the two people involved to have a strong emotional connection. Without great communication, the sex never even comes close to its full potential. Sex is not a chore, not a race to the finish, it’s a time when two people who care about each other delight in providing pleasure in a way that is loving and satisfying. There is no goal you have to achieve – it’s fun with no pressure.
It is Michael’s personal mission to serve other couples who struggle with emotional and physical intimacy due to Erectile Dysfunction/Impotence and use his vibrant communication skills and his personal experience to share what he has learned.
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