One of the crazy excuses that stops a woman from enjoying sex is believing her body isn’t sexy anymore.
Doesn’t it make sense that if you’re more concerned about how you look than enjoying the pleasures of the flesh – you’re not going to enjoy it?
It’s impossible to enjoy sex If you’re not present in the moment. If you’re busy doing a body check, instead of focusing on the kiss or the touch, you are shortchanging yourself and your partner.
It’s hard to convince a woman that a man sees her body differently than she does. They’re not nearly as concerned with the flaws as you are. What turns on a man is your passion, your imagination, your enjoyment. He doesn’t care about that extra weight you might have put on or that your breasts aren’t quite as firm as they used to be.
Sex is one of the greatest pleasure in life, so why would you choose to give it up because you imagine your body isn’t sexy. Just relax. Relish in the pleasure that your body can provide and stop worrying how your butt looks from every possible angle.
The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.