Cougar Women and Why Men Love Them

LindaFranklin01aWhen I tell people about The Real Cougar Woman the first thing they ask me is why are younger men attracted to older women?  What is it about the age difference that's such a turn on?  When you stop to think about it's not so hard to figure out. Ageless beauties are far more likely to be financially independent, secure, know what they want and just have that alluring je ne sais quoi that is hard to resist.

Two more things that make Real Cougars hard to resist is how they feel about having children and game playing. Real Cougars most likely have already had children or are childless by choice.  So, if a man doesn't want kids, and many do not,  it's a relief not to be pressured by a woman ruled not her biological clock.  And, when it comes to game playing, Real Cougars take a pass. Experience has taught her they don't work and they are most comfortable telling it like it is.   

Here are a few dating facts from a recent survey about cougars that you might find interesting.


More than 90% of cougars are looking for a serious relationship – a myth-busting finding which shows that cougar women aren't all just looking for casual fun.

On a date most cougar women either let the younger man pay for dinner or insist on splitting the check – who says cougar women are all sugar mamas?

45% of cougars have dated more than five younger men – it's not just an experiment dating younger men is often a lifestyle choice.

Emotional baggage is what most turn cougars off dating men their own age, so older guys need to lighten up to compete.

A relationship with a younger man has it challenges – but honestly what relationship doesn't. If you are fed up with your dating choices, give the younger guys a chance. You might be pleasantly surprised.


The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality.  Linda Franklin says,"there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible". Linda's book, Don't Ever Call Me Ma'am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.


2 thoughts on “Cougar Women and Why Men Love Them

  1. Interesting. No one likes baggage really now matter the age. I think the LIGHTEN UP advice is great for ALL of your readers.
    Also, the point about not having the pressure of the KIDS thing has got to be a big one. You are right. Many men do not want to have kids but it seems they get pressured into it sometimes in my circles.

  2. Well as a male in his mid 20s, i dont know but i definately have a strong preference for women 30s and above. Its just right in every sense especially in terms of how well they tend to get along with me in dealing and comprehending complex life challenges and there is much less drama.

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