Be honest! Haven't you ever walked down the street and wondered if you've still got what it takes to turn a head or two? I know I have. You think to yourself, how does does that adorable younger man that you've noticed looking at you, really see me? And, wouldn't it be fun to find out if he thinks you are still smokin hot.
Real Cougars know it's important to look as good on the outside as you feel on the inside. No, that doesn't mean trying to look 25, but it does mean looking cool and hip for the age that you are. Too often, after a certain age, both men and women think its OK to let themselves go. They just throw in the towel and stop trying.
Here's an example of what I'm talking about. Last week I was talking to a man at a friend's birthday party. He was there with his wife and I guess both were in the mid 60's. He told me that sometimes when he looks over at his wife in bed he doesn't recognize her. He said it's like sleeping with a stranger.
In his eyes she has stopped trying. Her energy, her vitality and her interest in sex has been relocated to the bottom of her priority list. He didn't come right out and say it, but I'd guess that makes him feel old too. Odds are he never tell her what he told me, but our conversation stays fresh in my mind.
If lately you are feeling less than the sexy goddess that you really are, maybe it's time to change your look. Start the process by making one small change. Try a new hair color, change your makeup, get your teeth whitened, buy an outfit you wouldn't normally buy. Nothing drastic at first, just something that makes you smile when you look in the mirror. Get used to that feeling. Chances are one small change will inspire you take the next step toward feeling fabulous.
So just for fun, the next time you walk down the street, stand up straight, hold your head up high, stick out your chest and strut your stuff. Show the world the sexy, cool, woman that you are.