Last week wowOwow.com asked their readers this question – 'if you were no longer married would you consider marrying a younger man'? In my opinion, the connection between two people has very little to do with their age, but if I was forced to give a yes or no answer I would have to say NO but not for the obvious reason.
Remember growing up we heard 'it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor one'? Well, today we could substitute rich for young.. Even though society doesn't readily accept these love matches, it's definitely becoming more popular.
Women today who are 40+++ are taking better care of themselves, working longer and are infused with a youthful energy and spirit. They want someone who feels the same enthusiasm for life as they do. Often that person is a younger man.
So, back to why I wouldn't marry a younger man.
It has very little to do with age and more to do with the 'M" word. I'm not a big fan of marriage. It took me over 20 years of living together to finally walk down the aisle. I will always want a special man in my life, and very possibly someone younger, but not a husband.
Here are a few more opinions on the sugject.
Candance Bergen says, "Okay. First, it’s about time THAT sexist taboo was done away with. Once it was addressed, it disintegrated fairly quickly. That said, if I were not so extremely old and happily married, I might partner with a younger guy — with the understanding that it would end badly … for me. And with the understanding that as I aged and withered and fattened, my anxiety would also increase. It wouldn’t be a relationship for sissies".
Joan Ganz Cooney – "If I were single – and this has been true for years – I would neither marry nor partner with any man of any age. I’ve been married for 30 years to the only man on the planet with whom I could possibly live. I think a woman who is looking for a partner would be smart to marry or partner with someone at least several years younger because women live longer than men, so it makes sense. How much younger is up to the cougar … er, I mean woman.
So now I have to ask - would you consider marrying a younger man? I can tell you that the women in my community who have taken the plunge are very happy. And don't even get me started on how they grin ear to ear when the discussion comes around to their sex lives!!!
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