I see too many women rushing around trying to do it all, but meanwhile they're not being it all! They're not being their fullest, best feminine selves. Instead, they're being tougher than they'd like to be as well as more exhausted, strident and irritable, thereby feeling unattractive inside and out. All while suffering from guilt over the stuff they did not manage to squeeze into their over-booked schedules.
I know this firsthand because I've personally experienced this over-emphasis on doing, doing, doing. The irony? Whenever I do take the time to tap into "feminine-ism"—this energy of simply being by indulging in a meditative and self-nurturing massage or a hot bubble bath—that's when I feel my most powerful.
Women don't have to make a choice between feminine or powerful and successful. We can be all those things and more.