Cougar Guide To Relationship Lies

30770816 Like it or not, relationship lies are used by men everywhere. Women may delude themselves into thinking their partner would never do such a thing, but it just ain’t so. 

Here are a few of the favorite lies our guys use to get off the hook.  Do any of them seem the least beat familiar? 

LIE 1:  I'D NEVER LIE TO YOU: He will tell you whatever necessary to avoid tears or conflict. If you challenge the lie, he'll say it was necessary because you can't handle the truth.

LIE 2:  I'D NEVER CHEAT ON YOU: If Angelina Jolie threw herself naked at his feet, he would definitely consider his options. It doesn't mean he would do it, it means he'd consider it – and research shows around half would do it.

LIE 3: I'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT SLEEPING WITH YOUR FRIENDS: No, especially not the one with the sporty body and big boobs. Believe me, he's always thinking about it, even about the ugly ones. It doesn't mean he'll do it; it means he thinks about it, whether you like it or not.

LIE 4:  I'M NOT INTO THAT SORT OF THING: Men use this lie in response to a woman's repulsion to kinky sex she's seen on TV. The reality is he is into that sort of thing or he'd love to try it.

Men are different than we are when it comes to sex.  They can have sex with women they don't even like and then forget about it the next day.  For us it's not that easy. 


3 thoughts on “Cougar Guide To Relationship Lies

  1. Ah yes, these lies you posted do ring a bell! Tnerein lies the difference in our wiring versus that of a man. They a visual creatures, and sex, sex sex is on their brains I think a lot more. Again this is a generalization but it has merit. I like this honest article because it forces us to come to to terms with lies men do tell in relationships. Perhaps acceptance is they key, while of course never compromising oneself as a woman.

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