Real Cougar Tips For Dating Younger

These days you don't have to be a rich or beautiful to attract a younger man.  However, the perceived Sexy-couple stigma about a younger man with an older woman hasn't completely disappeared. Unfortunately, we are still dealing with the antiquated double standard. 

According to AARP, 34 percent of all women over 40 dating younger men are enjoying the experience.  They find a younger man more appealing because he is less controlling, not so set in his ways, more fun loving and carrying around less baggage. Also, the chemistry is better and the balance of power is more equally distributed. A woman who has a career may find a younger man more supportive and understanding of her hectic schedule. 

Here are a few tips for navigating the older woman-younger man relationship.

  • Decide what kind of relationship you want – commitment, friendship or sexual
  • Forget about the stigma, your peers and societal pressures
  • Enjoy the moment – take it one step at a time and enjoy
  • If you're getting serious – delve into how you both feel about marriage, the baby issue and also talk about everything financial
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One thought on “Real Cougar Tips For Dating Younger

  1. I recently started seeing a younger man. I let's say am a mature retired lady.
    It is a wonderful experience for me, and I am enjoying our time together. I was married to a PO for 28 years,and I can honestly say that this relationship is so much more loving,caring, and the communication is so much better than I had with my spouse.
    I have issues with self esteem and I am really trying to work on that,with my new friend and confidant. He's a good listener.
    I never thought that a man 16 years younger than me would have this type of attraction.
    He makes me feel young and desirable and it certainly helps my ego as well.
    My relationship before was with emotional and verbal abuse. I have so many scars from this,and I am trying to heal. It's a long road, but I am determined to heal and move on.
    I can't think of a better way to start then having this totally differant and supportive person in my life.
    I must admit, I thought that it was not socially proper and accepted for an older lady to be with a younger man. (Generation Thing) Now, I think it's FABULOUS. Women out there given the situation or opportunity try it. You won't regret that you did.
    Thanks

    PAP

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