Real Cougar Women Forced To Dumb Down?

by Linda Franklin  

Real Cougar Women – women who are smart, independent and successful know relationships between men and women are changing radically. And, they are finding it increasingly difficult to marry successful men to have an important relationship with.

Research is revealing that when a woman is successful she is having to ‘trade down’ when it comes to finding a partner.  Historically, women have looked for partners who were richer and better educated than themselves.  Now that’s changing.  

As women outperform men in earnings and promotion the traditional model of the relationship between men and women is being turned on its head.

Philadelphia-based Pew Research Centre study, published in The Atlantic magazine, suggests female graduates are being put in similar situation to that faced for some time by black women.  Apparently 70 per cent of black women have no husband and there are twice as many black women as black men with university degrees.

So, where does that leave smart, educated women these days?  Confused.  What can they do?  Instead of dumbing down to find a man, look for one who loves you for who you are.  Yes, he may not be as financially successful as you are, but if he has other great qualities, and is not threatened by your powerful ways, you just might make it together.  

 

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

 

Enzymes Keep Us Young

By Linda Franklin

Women are always having problems with their bellies.  Bloating, cramps, constipation - an overall uncomfortable feeling. One of the things that might be causing that discomfort is the body’s lack of enzymes.Enzymes play a big role in our digestion which translates to feeling good and aging well. If we can keep our digestive system functioning like a young woman, we can maintain youthful health and appearance.

So what are enzymes?  They are delicate lifelike substances found in all living cells. Enzymes are biologically active proteins necessary for all living organisms. Metabolic enzymes regulate every biochemical reaction that occurs within our body.

Here’s what you need to know.

 

Metabolic enzymes are an essential component for optimal cellular function and health. They speed up the chemical reactions within the cells for detoxification and energy production. They enable us to see, hear, move and think.

Digestive enzymes are secreted along the digestive tract to break food down into nutrients and waste. Most of the digestive enzymes are produced by the pancreas. The liver, gallbladder, small intestine, stomach and colon also play pivotal roles in the production of these enzymes. Digestive enzymes allow the nutrients found in the foods we consume to be absorbed into the blood stream and the waste to be discarded.

Food enzymes are introduced to the body through raw foods we eat and the consumption of supplemental enzyme products. Raw foods naturally contain enzymes, providing a source of digestive enzymes when ingested. However, raw food manifests only enough enzymes to digest that particular food. The cooking and processing of food destroys all of its enzymes. Since most of the foods we eat are cooked or processed in some way and since the raw foods we do eat contain only enough enzymes to process that particular food, our bodies must produce the majority of the digestive enzymes we require, unless we use supplemental enzymes to aid in the digestive process.

Between 60 to 80 percent of the body’s energy is used to move food through the digestive system, maintain balance between the acidity of the stomach and the alkalinity of the body, and most importantly, produce the massive amount of digestive enzymes necessary to extract nutrients from food in order for the body to benefit from its intake.

It’s possible that when we suddenly start experiencing indigestion, heartburn, acid reflux, gas, food craving , bloating and other digestive issues, that the real culprit is something else.  Most people give little thought to the connection between their digestion and their overall health, but the two are intertwined. Understanding the digestive process in an important part of understanding how digestive enzymes can be beneficial to your health.

Some very convincing research shows that the greater the burden on the digestive system, the less effective and active our immune system becomes. When we eat, digestion becomes the priority. Our body will always supply the energy our digestive system needs to benefit from the food we have eaten, no matter how little that leaves for the other systems. If the pattern persist over time, our body may no longer be able to keep up on a regular basis; a shortage of metabolic enzymes ( metabolic energy ) will then occur, eventually takes it’s toll. However we do not call it en enzyme deficiency — we have given it other names, like diabetes, cancer, heart diseases, and lupus.

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

Atheists Having More Fun In Bed

Atheists have far better sex lives than those who are religious. This is because they are not plagued with guilt during sex and for weeks afterwards. 

A study discovered that non-believers are more willing to discuss sexual fantasies and are more satisfied with the actual sexual experience.

Both groups of people admitted that they masturbated, watched pornography, had oral sex and had affairs. 

Orgasms Come In 4 Different Varieties

Can we ever know too much about orgasm?  It’s an art and I thought all of my Real Cougars would want to be enlightened in that particular art. Make no mistake it is an art – if you truly appreciate the pleasure an orgasm can give you.

I didn’t know we could experience four different kinds of orgasms.  I thought orgasms were orgasms, but I was wrong.   

Betty Dodson Ph.D sexologist, who has been one of the principal voices for women’s sexual pleasure and health for over three decades, shares what she has observed about the female orgasm.

“After years of observing my own orgasms plus all the women I’ve known personally and have worked with professionally, I’ve observed four basic categories: Pressure, Tension, Relaxation and the Combination that I call a “Rock and Roll Orgasm.” This one combines elements of the first three. While breathing fully during a buildup, we are squeezing and releasing our muscles rhythmically with direct or indirect clitoral contact. Pressure or Tension orgasms are most often reached by holding our breath and gasping occasionally. Total relaxation orgasms or what I’ve also termed “Sleeping Beauty” are most rare. To remain totally relaxed while breathing deeply, someone else must do genital stimulation in a manner that is nearly perfect. Ha! If you find that person capture them quick!

While no two orgasms from self-stimulation are precisely the same, most women use some form of direct or indirect clitoral stimulation with or without penetration. The body responds with movement, no movement, along with varied breathing patterns from holding the breath to panting. Other women remain utterly silent while others make a variety of sounds. The mind can be paying attention to what the body is feeling, focused on sexual thoughts, or conjuring up a sex fantasy. Just as long as you’re not planning a dinner menu or running the laundry list.

To learn more about each specific orgasm click here.

 The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest

Lara Logan – The Ultimate Story Of Sisterhood

I watched 60 minutes on Sunday to see Lara Logan’s first interview since her horrendous attack.

 

This is the ultimate story of sisterhood, the women of Egypt saved her. This woman was almost torn to pieces – literally. Their camera light went out, someone in the crowd yelled “she’s a jewish spy”, and her 25 minute torture began.

 She was pushed through the crowd until she fell into a woman’s lap. She was wearing a chador so she could only see her eyes. The group of women enclosed around Lara and saved her life.

http://cnettv.cnet.com/av/video/cbsnews/atlantis2/cbsnews_player_embed.swf

Reality Show Opp For Women In Southern California

A major reality TV production company has contacted me.  They are searching for a lively group of Southern California women who are into the excitement and drama of Bunco.   

 

Their show will feature several members of a Bunco group and document their lives inside and out of the world of the game, much like the Real Housewives.  They are specifically looking for full or partial groups in their late 20's to late 40's with dynamic personalities and exciting lives. 

 

If you haven't played the game before, it's not a problem.  The show focuses more on your interpersonal relationships than the game itself.  

Their archetype is a true embodiment of the "Real Cougar Woman"!  An empowered female who celebrates her accomplishments, her femininity and joi de vivre! 

Single, in a relationship or married, they are open to any and all, as long as you are fabulous!

If you are interested, please email your name, location, phone, email and recent picture to me at linda@therealcougarwoman.com.  I will forward it to the producer.

Thanks.