Women Hiring Gigolos On The Rise

by Linda Franklin

A handsome, muscle-bound man who is charming, witty and keen to treat a woman like an angel whenever she is in the mood?

It may sound too good to be true. Until, that is, money is thrown into the equation.

Gigolos are on the rise in the U.S., says ABC’s Nightline, with more and more well-educated, successful and high-earning women willing to shell out thousands of dollars for dates – and sex – with the ‘perfect’ man.

Garren James, owner of Cowboys 4 Angels, has had 2,000 job applications since his agency starred in reality series, Gigolos. Models turned cowboys take home 80 per cent of their hourly rate which starts at $300.00.

With services paid for up front and under the strict guise of simply charging for time, rather than sex, the practice is 100 per cent legal – straight male escorts bill for their hours and nothing more. If that leads to sex with a female client, so be it.  

One woman uses this pleasurable service as incentive to lose wight – and books a Cowboy every time she sheds five pounds. It’s working. She says that since she started heading on dates with the former models, she has gone from a size 28 to an 18.

For her, though, the icing on the cake is that she is in control, and free to do as she pleases. ‘I know they aren’t going to call. I don’t want them to call,’ she told Nightline.

Cowboys 4 Angels is now in Texas, New York, California, Georgia and Nevada.

Today many women are too busy for a boyfriend and they prefer the ‘sure thing’.  This fits the bill for their needs.

While the gigolos are not required to take STD tests as they are officially not being paid for sex, but say they practice safe sex.

So, I toss this out to you.  Do you think it’s wrong for a woman to engage the services of a gigolo?  It sure flies in the face of conventional thinking.  I say it’s okay as long as you don’t get emotionally attached – and that’s a big if. Remember, Richard Gere got hooked on his paid-for escort in Pretty Woman?

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

Sexually Addicted Women

by Linda Franklin

Often there is a fine line that separates acceptable sexual behavior and what is sexually addictive or compulsive. This is especially true for women in a society where sex is too often treated as a commodity. Our culture discourages women from being assertive and direct in the expression of their sexual needs, and that fosters a less direct and potentially seductive or manipulative approach.

The idea of being “love addicted” may be preferred by sexually addicted women because it fits the romantic, nurturer model of woman. The “love” they experience is a yearning or euphoria of romance, but has little to do with love.

The elements of sex addiction in women are similiar to other addicitions:

1. Compulsion, or unsuccessful attempts to control a sexual behavior

2. Continued behavior despire negative time spent on sex-related activities

3. Obsessive thoughts in planning or obtaining sex

Some sexually addictive behavior patterns in women may include: excessive flirting; wearing provocative clothing whenever possible; changing one’s appearance with excessive dieting, excessive exercise, and/or reconstructive surgery; making sexual advances to others in subordinate power positions; seeking sexual partners in high-risk locations; multiple extramarital affairs; disregard of appropriate sexual boundaries, 

Many women addicted to sex were sexually abused in childhood — one research study showed 78%.

Sexually addicted women have sought professional help for psychological problems, but their sexual compulsivity was never addressed. 12 step programs such as SLAA, Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA), Sexual Recovery Anonymous (SRA) and Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (SCA) can teach women how to integrate healthy sexual behavior into their lives.

The Real Cougar Woman is a 5-carat diamond who knows the importance of taking care of her health, beauty, relationships, finances and spirituality. Linda Franklin says,”there is no stopping a woman who has a strong belief system, passion and a dream. All things are possible”. Linda’s book, Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am helps women of all ages tap into their power and live life to the fullest.

 

Linda Franklin, The Real Cougar Woman reports Men Who Are Good Listeners Are Better at Sex

Linda Franklin, The Real Cougar Woman, says, men who are good listeners are better at sex.   I don't think this surprises us, does it ladies?  We already knew what a new study has just revealed.  Men who are good at communicating and listening are more likely to give us great orgasms.

But, hold on we, even though we already knew this about men, it doesn't get us off the hook.  We have a responsibility too.  After all  fabulous sex is a two-way street.  Women with good self-esteem and who are independent are shown to have a much better time between the sheets.

So, intimacy or if you prefer. emotional empathy is the key to a better sex life.