by Linda Franklin
Did you ever have that gut feeling that’s telling you your spouse is up to no good. That maybe he has got something going on the side. That nauseating feeling of betrayal is so horrible that you may consciously choose not to pay attention to the warning signs. Knowing for sure can get ugly and your life could be turned upside down. But wait a minute….
Don’t you owe it to yourself to know the truth? Your happiness, your self-esteem, your financial future are on the line here. It’s up to you to protect yourself. If you don’t know the telltale signs of a cheating spouse, these nine signs provide pretty conclusive proof.
1. The sex
Your hubbie wants more sex. His libido is over stimulated, but it’s just sex – there is no emotion attached. Of course, the other side of that coin is that he doesn’t want sex at all.
2. His Appearance
A cheating husband will make sure his hair looks right, and will start taking more interest going to the gym. (He can even use that time to have that secret rendesvous..who knows).
3. More Time Away From Home
Work obligations are demanding more of his time. And, add to that, more out-of-town tmeetings.
4. He takes up a time-consuming hobby that doesn’t involve you
This regular hobby can include the gym (if you can call that health hobby), the library, jogging or some kind of sport. The less you are interested in it, the more chance of him taking it.
5. His cell phone has become his constant companion
A cheating husband needs to take his cell phone everywhere (Yes even to the bathroom with the door locked from the inside). This is just in case the other woman call or it’s for him to contact that other woman.
6. He eats less, or he has stomach upset
Not so smart cheater will have dinner with his secret lover and won’t have want to eat when he gets home.
7. You catch some lies – white lies, big lies..
You realize he’s been lying and getting better at covering them up. He avoids eye contact with you, and won’t participate in any discussion about infidelity. And when you push him to the edge ready to prove that he’s lying, he’ll get defensive or very angry.
8. Emails – New email address, new passwords, no history
He is using the computer a lot. When you walk in the room he minimises all windows – or closes them altogether. When he finally gets off the computer nothing is left in the history. All temporary cookies are deleted too.
9. Obvious evidence
This can be perfume on his laundry items, lipstick on his collar or shirt, or even the fact that he wants to do his own laundry. Hair can also be evidence (Like…you see blonde hair in his car, and your hair is black)
On top of these signs of infidelity, you’ll find that a cheating husband will stare off into space a lot, talking much less and losing interest in you and the family
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