Sex Is Different For Men – Women Be Smart With Your Heart

By: Dr. Fayr Barkley, Ph.D.

Women bond to a man sexually, partly because of wish fulfillment, an increase in Dopamine and Oxytocin levels associated with orgasm. Many women think that once they have slept with a man  it means things are now exclusive; however, men do not necessarily subscribe to this  thinking.

This is why it is SO IMPORTANT to have a talk prior to having sex to find out what this experience is going to mean for both of you and to make sure you are on the same page.  If you are a woman looking for an exclusive relationship and he is a man who is not, then why would you have sex with him? You are putting your emotional health and risk and will end up getting hurt.

Cougar Woman Torn About Her Relationship

I received this email from a reader and I wanted to share it with you.    

Dear Linda,

 

I am 37 years old, separated with two kids, working on my PhD. I have been involved in a relationship with a guy who is 11 years younger than me and feeling totally excited but also absolutely scared. 

I just found your website today and the first thing that came to my mind was "OMG, I am not alone!!!". Thank you for that.

 

However, my situation is a lot more complicated than a "normal" cougar.